Written by someone who seems like he doesn’t have anything to prove, How to Become an Alpha Male, by John Alexander is one of my favorite books on approaching and picking up women.

It seems like anyone who wants to improve their success with women starts on  similar path. First, they want to learn “pickup lines.” Those magical one-liners that will get any woman, anywhere to spread her legs and offer an all access pass.

Once they realize that there is no such thing as a secret “open sesame” short of hypnosis (and some guys have tried that, believe me), they move to essentially mimicking the traits of “rockstars” where flamboyant outfits, doing outrageous things, essentially picking up on the outside behaviors to become successful with women. Now, in all honesty, this works better than pickup lines alone, however, it comes at a cost.

For one, while “pea-cocking” as it is commonly referred, will work at initially attracting a woman, it’s a difficult game to keep up.

Eventually, if you continue to increase your skill with women, you begin to build up your confidence, or “inner game,” the trait which naturals already possess.

In How to Become An Alpha Male, author John Alexander outlines the very steps of not only becoming successful with women, but better in life. In this book, you learn the secrets of what makes an alpha male, as well as the tools and techniques to making it possible.

John Alexander points out early on in his book that most guides written for men about how to attract favorable attention from women focus largely on WHAT to do to please the woman. His approach, he says, is to concentrate instead on how to BECOME the man that women respond to.

This is much easier, because you have total control over the object of your attention – which is you! No matter how much work you put into improving yourself, you’ll still have the results if your relationship does not pan out. The object of your affection will not be able to walk off and bring your hard work tumbling down around you like a house of cards.

Become the alpha male, says John, and you will ALWAYS BE the alpha male, no matter how things turn out in any one relationship. You will then always be able to simply BE YOURSELF, and “get non-stop streams of women” without any difficulty whatsoever.

John Alexander has dedicated 170 pages to getting you to the point where he is now. It will take time and practice to learn the things that he now takes for granted, but the ideas in this book are very sound. Further more, the principle’s espoused in “How To Become An Alpha Male” will spill over to all aspects of your life, such as how you conduct yourself at work, so you’ll see improvements in others perceptions of you across the board. It is very hard to imagine how you could become an Alpha Male with women without simultaneously improving your social skills with everyone you interact with.

One of the main advantages that John’s book has going for it was that it was written by someone who knows how to keep the reader engaged. In fact, if you were heading off to the pub for a round of relaxation and philosophizing (is that a word?) with your buddies, John is exactly the kind of character you’d want to have in your group.

Because this is the case, you shouldn’t have any problem plowing through the book to reach the end. Another bonus is that an audio version of the book is available for customers of the ebook (a link to the discounted audio file version containing more than 6 hours of material can be found near the end of the book). So if you really enjoyed what John has had to say, and you want to have his lessons further soak into your consciousness over a period of time, you can use the audio tapes to repeatedly expose yourself to the ideas.

“How To Become An Alpha Male” gets my top recommendation. Grab this one – you won’t regret it!

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