Pick Up Lines To Start A Conversation
by Joseph Matthews

Some pick up lines are unbecoming, boring and rude.

How many times have we heard cheesy pick up lines like:

“Did it hurt?  When you fell from heaven, did it hurt?”

“Your name must be Gillet, because you’re the best a man can get.”

“I lost my number, can I have yours?”

Using a line like these will get you nowhere with a woman fast, chances are she will not even speak to you.

Because pick of lines such as these, which are bad get too much attention, while encouraging others to consider that all pick up lines are worthless.

And this just isn’t true.

A good pick up line will actually do what it says – help you pick up a girl!

Keep in mind that the purpose of using a pick up line is to begin a conversation.

That is all.

Once you get the girl talking with you, then you can work your magic and do what you need to do to get the date, the phone number, or the make-out.

If you cannot begin a conversation, you can do little else.

You not only talk to a woman, you engage her, by drawing her into a conversation, and this is the only means to continuing with your goal.

Good pick up lines help you do this.

Do you know that when most men meet women they are at a loss for words to begin talking to a woman? They try to think of something off the top of their head, while often missing the opportunity of meeting a nice woman, before they can think of something to say.

This is why you should know a couple of good working pick up lines. Situations like these may hinder you from being original and you need something to help you get the ball rolling.

Keep in mind that women are wise; never use these types of pick up lines, since they get you nowhere at all.

“Don’t I know you from somewhere?”

This is lame pick up line and women know it, this is not a clever pick up line and makes you look bad.

Also, doing things like asking for directions, telling a girl she looks like a certain celebrity, and complimenting her on a piece of clothing are BAD ways to pick a girl up.

Why do you think this is?

This is because these lines do not engage the woman into a conversation with you, once she answers your question, she may not show interest in conversing with you.

Avoid pick up lines that have yes and no answers. Good pick up lines get a woman to think about her reply, while inducing an emotional reaction, which encourages her to continue talking with you.

How do you engage a woman in conversation?

Easy, ask her opinion about some issue, since each woman has her own opinion, she likes to share with other, especially when it concerns relationships.

Here is an example. Say to her, Can I get your opinion on something, please. Do you think it is strange for a woman to try to get pregnant at certain times so her child is born under a particular astrological sign? I would really be interested in a womans opinion of this.

Then follow up with a short story of how a woman may want her and her children’s zodiac sign to be compatible, so they interact well together throughout their lives.

These various types of subjects for conversation can be about:

1.  Astrology 2.  Children 3.  Pregnancy 4.  Marriage 5.  Relationships

The number of ways you can go with this are endless.  Some of my favorite follow ups are:

“Are you a believer in astrology?” (This can begin conversations about destiny and fate.)

“What is your zodiac sign?” (This can lead to talking about your sign compatibility – as a general rule, no matter what your sign is – you are compatible!)

“Are you fond of children?  You seem very nurturing.”

I could go on, but you should get the idea.

So as you can see, this pick up line is designed to pull the girl into a deep and interesting conversation, and gives you the opportunity to get to know her better and allow her to become familiar with you.

This is how you engage a woman in conversation.

From that point, it should be rather easy to ask her for a telephone number and possibly set up a first date.

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