Overcoming Shyness and How to Pickup Women
Feeling clueless when it comes to picking up women? These handy tips will help get you started on the path of success to getting the women of your dreams!
Are you looking to start picking up women, but clueless about where to start?
Chances are no one you know can help you learn to pick up women. Your friends are probably just as clueless as you are, and your family is of no help at all. Even those “Dating Experts” you see on TV are full of it, because they have to cater to the feminist media to keep their careers on track! (And as we all know, the mainstream media doesn’t like helping guys get laid!)
Bottom line: Picking up women is not a politically-correct topic!
If you want to have success with women TONIGHT, you’re going to have to follow some practical advice that works right away. Lucky for you, I’m about to share some with you right now…
Let me first tell you what you DON’T need to pick up women.
You DON’T need to be “male model” good looking.
This is a huge mistake that almost all men make. Little do they realize that close to 85% of women place more importance on how a man makes them FEEL as opposed to how he actually LOOKS.
So if you’re insecure about your looks, don’t sweat it! There’s still hope.
Second, you DON’T have to spend a lot of money or drive an expensive car!
Some of the best pick up artists I’ve ever met never spend more than $30 when on a date, and many of them didn’t even own a car! (And if they did, it wasn’t a very nice one!)
Most women don’t care how much money you make or spend on them – IF they actually like you! And a big part of picking up women is to get them to like you, isn’t that right?
Finally, you DON’T have to be famous, be a certain type of ethnicity or nationality, or anything else you can think of.
Understand: Personality trumps every other obstacle you think you have to getting a girl to like you!
If you know the proper way to interact with women, nothing else matters.
Unless you’re already on the verge of becoming a master pick up artist, you’re probably not going to have phenomenal success right away using these tips and tactics. But if you apply these and other tactics over a period of time and learn from your experiences, you’ll find your success with women will skyrocket!
You’ll want to try and go out as often as you can to talk to women – especially when you’re first starting out. You may be intimidated to go to “high pressure” environments like bars or clubs where it’s difficult to pick up women, but they are great practice grounds for you to hone your skills.
No matter what – if you want to get better, you need to devote some time every day to go out and pick up women. The more you do it, the better you’ll get!
You probably won’t have much success at first when you start going to clubs, but other people will actually start notice a change in you as your confidence goes up. Every success and failure in nightclubs will also helps to reinforce the things you need to do when you’re picking up women, and the things you need to avoid.
Remember: The more experience you have, the easier it’ll be.
The most important thing to remember about going out to pick up women is to gain experience!
When you’re going out to pick up women and gain experience, it’s important to look as good as you possibly can!
(Remember I didn’t say you had to be “good looking.” I said you need to “look good.” There’s a difference here. You may not have any say about what you look like, but you have complete control over your appearance – what you wear, how your hair looks, how you smell, etc.)
Dress for success: Wear clothing that fits you, that’s color-coordinated and looks good on you. If you have fashion-conscious friends who can help you pick out a wardrobe (particularly if they’re women), now’s the time to recruit them.
Keep in mind – you don’t NEED to dress nicely to meet women, but it will make it much easier on yourself if you do! Not only that, but the better you look, the more confident you’ll feel.
Always be on the lookout for pickup opportunities. Attractive women are everywhere, and it’s always a bad idea to let an opportunity to meet one of them slip you by!
Finally, every good pick-up follows a structure. Its a series of steps you can actually REPEAT time and time again and get similar results.
The structure is:
Find a girl.
Meet her.
Gain Rapport.
Build Attraction.
That’s it! Four simple steps. You’ll find that if you’re able to effectively meet women and gain rapport with them, you can build attraction quite easily.
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