Flirting with Women Tips For Men
by Joseph Matthews

I would like to ask you a question.

Have you ever been stuck in the friend mode with a woman you meet and like, despite all your best romantic efforts?

Well, there is a reason that happened!

Chances are it is because you did not flirt correctly with the woman.

You should know that flirting is essential in the attraction process. If you do not do it at all or do it wrong, you may blow your chances with a woman.

So why is flirting so important?

This is simple flirting creates sexual tension.

And if you don’t have sexual tension in an interaction, there is no attraction.  And if there’s no attraction, what does that make you?

That is correct – you’re a friend!

Your attraction enhances when you know how to flirt with women properly.

Flirting is no big secret as many might consider, flirting is a lot of fun. Flirting does not work only if it is not done properly.

Flirting with a woman is an art form. Flirting is the ability to communicate the romantic interest you have for a woman, while being subtle about the subject.

This is called “mixed signals.”

Your words communicate something different than your actions are communicating.

Some of the most common mistakes men make while flirting with a woman include:

MISTAKE #1:  Being Too Obvious

Too many guys get excited about the women they are attracted to, and will come out and say exactly what they are feeling.  What they don’t realize is that when presented with this information, the girl is then forced to make a judgment, right then and there, about how she feels about THEM.

And if you haven’t laid the proper groundwork beforehand, chances are the girl is going to reject you.

MISTAKE #2:  Not Being Obvious Enough!

If you make no effort to communicate your interest, yet think the woman will just know what you feel, when you do make a move it surprises the woman, because up until that point she has no idea of your interest.

MISTAKE #3:  Relying On Words Rather Than Actions

Although, flirting includes what you say and the way you say it, the most powerful performance comes from your non-verbal body language. The small simple things like raising an eyebrow, tilting your head to one side and that wicked little grin, that carries the most meaning in a seemingly innocent remark.

MISTAKE #4:  Taking Themselves Too Seriously

Flirting, when done right, is light and fun.  When guys try and make flirting more serious romantic gestures, the tension begins to break down.

If you’re not having fun when flirting – and more importantly, if the girl isn’t having fun – then you are doing something WRONG.

Although, there are other mistakes, these few should give you some ideas. Would you like to learn the proper way to begin flirting?

Use as much innuendo as you can while you are flirting, however the secret is in keeping it subtle.

Here is an example, if you are in a bar and the woman with you orders a drink and then asks if you want something, you can jokingly say, You are not trying to get me intoxicated so you can take advantage of me, are you? Say all this of course, with a wink and a nod.

Flirting communicates your attraction, although you never come right out and say it. Flirting is a lighthearted fun form of insinuation.

Another example would be, if a girl says something raunchy or naughty to you, you might respond with something like “Stop trying to seduce me, you vixen!  You know I don’t put out on the first date.”

Do you understand how all this works?

As you begin flirting more and more, you begin to get a bit more obvious about your interests, although you never really step over that line.

As you do this, you’ll begin to notice how the attraction between you and the girl starts to build and build.  And before you know it, that harmless flirting becomes an outright SEDUCTION.

Now the real fun begins.

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